Emotional Abuse Therapy in Guelph

Gentle, trauma-informed emotional abuse therapy in Guelph

What Emotional Abuse Can Feel Like

  • Doubting your memory or judgment after gaslighting

  • Feeling responsible for others’ moods

  • Isolation, shame, or loss of self-confidence

  • Confusion about whether “it was really that bad”

  • Trouble setting boundaries or asking for what you need

You’re not broken. These are common responses to chronic stress in relationships.

How Therapy Helps

  • Name what happened in clear, compassionate language

  • Steady your nervous system with practical regulation tools

  • Rebuild self-trust and a grounded inner voice

  • Practice boundaries that protect your time, energy, and safety

  • Grieve and integrate—so the past has less pull on the present

My work is psychodynamic and attachment-based, integrating IFS-informed approaches for parts of self. If it fits your goals, I may also draw on gentle skills practice. No rigid protocols, no promises—just thoughtful, steady care.

What Sessions Look Like

  • 50 minutes, in person in Guelph or secure video across Ontario

  • Collaborative goals we revisit as you grow

  • Pace that respects your nervous system—we don’t rush insights or disclosures

  • Options for brief, focused work or longer-term support

    Common Themes We Can Explore

    • Understanding patterns like FOG (fear, obligation, guilt) and DARVO dynamics

    • Untangling trauma bonds and the push-pull of “maybe it’ll change”

    • Finding your no (and your yes) without panic or guilt

    • Reconnecting with pleasure, rest, and community

    (If you’re currently in a high-conflict situation, we’ll plan for safety and support first.)

    About Me

    I’m Eleni Kapetanios, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) in Ontario. My approach is warm, steady, and transparent. We’ll set clear goals together, check in on progress, and adjust as your needs evolve. I welcome students and adults, and I offer couples therapy for partners working through conflict patterns.

Ready to Get Started?

If you’re feeling a mix of hope and nerves, that’s normal. Let’s talk about what you need and see if we’re a good fit.

Book a 15 minute consultation

Emotional abuse can be hard to name—and even harder to heal from. If you’ve been walking on eggshells, second-guessing yourself, or feeling small in your own life, therapy can offer a calm, steady space to make sense of what happened and rebuild trust in your voice—at a pace that feels safe.

 FAQs

  • Yes—secure video across Ontario, or in-person sessions in Guelph.

  • It varies by person and goals. We’ll agree on a focus and check in on progress regularly so care stays aligned with what you need.

  • We’ll explore your values, safety, and options together. I won’t tell you what to do; I’ll help you feel steadier making the choice that fits you.

  • That’s okay. We’ll move at your pace and start with what feels most manageable.